Helping Your Baby Get To Sleep

Most new parents are shocked by the constant interruption of their sleep that a newborn brings to the house. But there are ways to be there when your baby needs you, and still get some rest.

There are basically three schools of thought on this issue.

The first, made popular by the book authored by pediatrician Richard Ferber, advocates teaching babies over the age of three months to sleep through the night in their own cribs, by letting them "cry it out" for increasingly longer periods of time. While most babies eventually give up and fall asleep, the process is often traumatic for parents (and we can assume for the baby), and frequently needs to be repeated following any disruption in routine. Critics point out that Ferber has no psychology training and question whether letting babies cry it out has permanent, harmful effects. More on Ferber.

The second school of thought, practiced by advocates of the Family Bed, says that infants are hard-wired to sleep with their mothers, and nurse at night, for many months, probably until toddlerhood. They point out that babies who sleep with their mothers are less likely to die of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome), and that the mothers get much more sleep. My personal experience is that the family bed was heavenly. Critics of this method express concern that parents might inadvertently roll on their babies in the night, and point out that babies who sleep with their mothers and nurse on demand take much longer to sleep through the night. They also wonder why any self-respecting toddler who is accustomed to sleeping with his parents will give that up for a new, lonely, "big-boy-bed." Dr. James McKenna is one of my favorite resources on safe cosleeping.

The third school, perhaps best represented by No Cry Sleep Solution author Elizabeth Pantley, understands that parents may desperately need some sleep and agrees with Ferber that babies need to learn to fall back asleep on their own, but argues that this can be accomplished without the trauma of letting babies cry it out. More on Pantley's No Cry Sleep Solution.

My own view

There are safe ways for you to get more sleep, without leaving your baby to cry, and without necessarily sharing a bed. You can even start encouraging an infant in that direction but ONLY if you listen to the infant when he tells you he's hungry or needs you to hold him. In other words, this is a gentle, gradual process. See #8, below, for how to begin this process. 

Fair disclosure: I attempted Ferbering once when my son was nine months old and failed, having given him an ear infection from crying (and having nearly given myself a nervous breakdown.) After that, we went back to the family bed, which we all loved. However, once nursing my toddlers no longer helped them fall back asleep for long, I found myself walking the floor with them and spending many long hours in the middle of the night helping them to fall back to sleep. After substantial research, and working with many parents, I've come to the conclusion that many little ones who are helped to sleep by parents (nursing or rocking), simply can't put themselves back to sleep when they re-awaken during the night. If they're nursing, they may well awaken to nurse, but then will need to nurse again every time they re-awaken a little at night. Eventually, if they don't figure out how to fall back asleep on their own when they awaken at night, they will need our loving help to learn how to fall asleep without rocking or nursing.

Is this a problem? Not necessarily. Some moms are able to nurse at night as long as their child wants. However, I often speak with moms who are ready to stop night-nursing their little one, but find the prospect of night-weaning upsetting.

Does that mean we should always put babies down awake so they can learn to put themselves to sleep when tiny, so they won't develop bad habits? Since almost all newborns fall asleep at the breast (or bottle), that would be impossible. It is completely appropriate to nurse babies to sleep. Nursing to sleep is no more a "bad habit" than peeing in a diaper. As they get older, the time will come when they can learn to fall asleep themselves, just as they will eventually give up diapers.

Does that mean that a time will come when to teach our baby or toddler to fall asleep, we can leave him to cry? Never, in my view, if you want an emotionally healthy child.

But then how do kids learn to fall asleep on their own, without nursing back to sleep? They learn in the safe comfort of your arms, once they're old enough. For more on teaching your child to learn to fall asleep without nursing or rocking, click here.

Sleep is, of course, a very personal decision. I believe that

There is a sleep solution that fits every unique family, from co-sleeping to baby bunks that attach to the parents' bed, to baby hammocks, to cribs.

Of course you want your children to know from the earliest age that they can always ask for and get help. That said, we all need sleep to function and be good parents. My recommendations are biased in favor of keeping your infant close so you can get more sleep. But this is a very individual choice. Read as much as you can, and then lose the guilt. Do what works for you and your baby.

How can you get some sleep, 

when your infant is still waking up to eat?

1. Sleep whenever and wherever you can.

Keep your baby near you while he's still nursing at night, so you don't have to get out of bed. Breastmilk is designed to be given every few hours. It simply cannot hold a baby for much longer. Rats, on the other hand, give their baby food much higher in fat, so that the mother rat can leave the babies for eight hours while she’s off foraging. Baby humans could not survive predators if they were left for long periods, so nature has designed them to require their mother's presence fairly constantly. That means your baby needs to be nursed at night, for a minimum of six months and probably until she is a year old.

2. Afraid of rolling over on your baby?

Unlikely, since mothers are designed not to (unless her natural warning system has been interfered with by drugs or alcohol). There is actually evidence that babies who sleep with their mothers are less likely to die of SIDS because the co-sleeping babies' sleep cycles are in sync with their moms', and her presence stimulates him not to fall into such a deep sleep. There are experts who say that a father could suffocate a very young baby, especially if he's had a drink before bed, so most safe co-sleeping checklists say to position the baby between mom and the wall rather than between the parents. However, the fathers I hear from tell me they're very conscious of their baby, even while asleep. We know that Dads do have a hormonal response to becoming fathers, which includes a natural protectiveness toward the baby, so Paternal Instinct is as real as Maternal Instinct. I personally think that any Dad will be a better father if we honor his paternal instinct and give him the opportunity to sleep snuggled with his baby, but that's an individual decision. In any case, make sure you set up your bed for safe cosleeping, don't start without reading this detailed checklist for safe co-sleeping.

3. If you don't feel comfortable with your baby in bed with you, try a “Moses basket,” cradle or baby bunk within arm's reach.

Some moms are such light sleepers that they just can't get any sleep at all if the baby is in their bed. There are wonderful baby bunks that can be anchored to your bed, at the same level, and opened so that the baby has his own space but you can roll him into your bed with you to nurse.

4. Learn to nurse lying down so you can sleep while he feeds.

It may take a week, while you get the hang of nursing, but learn to nurse lying down, so you can doze, and you'll feel much more rested. Just wedge pillows behind you and between your knees for support, and put a folded blanket under Baby if necessary to raise him to the level of your breast so neither of you is straining to reach. He should be on his side, facing you.

5. Help your baby set her metabolic clock.

She doesn't know it's night and she should sleep. She'll learn, eventually, but you can help your little night-owl adjust faster to the world outside your womb by making sure she doesn't sleep all day. Take her out in the sun. Go for walks. Let her feast her eyes and ears on the wonders of the world. All humans really do sleep better at night when they've been exposed to fresh air and sunshine during the day. Also,you should know that babies who sleep with their moms end up synchronizing their REM sleep cycles, which means she's more likely to treat night as sleep time and day as waking time. And of course, keep things dark and quiet at night. Nurse her when she wakes, and change her if you must (not all babies are sensitive enough to require changes at night), but don't make it into playtime.

6. Take a long maternity leave, so you can nap when your baby naps during the day.

This is the golden rule. Forget the shower, who cares? Go for the nap.

7. If your partner can take the baby in the morning to let you sleep in for an hour, it can make all the difference in the world.

Don't feel guilty about it. Eight hours of sleep with interruptions to feed your baby is not the same as the eight hours you used to get. You need lots more now.

8. Go to bed early.

When you were pregnant you did it. Don't feel bad about it, this is not the time to resume an active evening life. You have the rest of your life to stay up late.

9. Encourage sleep associations that your baby can control.

As your infant gets a bit older -- say three months -- you can begin encouraging her to learn to fall asleep without sucking or being held. This is a gradual, gentle process. Here's a whole article on how to encourage good sleep habits as your baby grows.

Baby Care Tips for New Moms

Taking care of a newborn baby is such a stressful thing to deal with, yet the joy still overcomes the tiredness you may feel. There are tricks and baby care tips you must know to make the burden lighter. These simple baby care tips can help you handle your baby properly while still being a beautiful wife to your husband.

Crying Can Mean Many Things

Specialists once thought that when a baby cries, it means they are experiencing stomach ache. Now, studies have shown that it may also be the cause of acid reflux. Experiencing this is painful for adults, let alone for babies. When your baby does constant screaming, back arching, and spitting up, these may be a sign of acid reflux. It's of utmost importance to go to a pediatrician to know what really causes your baby to cry.

It's Okay to Hold Your Baby

There has always been this rule that you can't hold your baby too much because he or she might get over dependent. Ignore this because you can't spoil a baby just by holding him or her. In fact, babies who are held often are more satisfied because their needs are met right away. They are more likely to have a higher self-esteem while growing up. It's the natural thing to do, so don't hesitate doing it.

Don't Depend On Baby Wipes

Baby wipes are costly and may cause irritations for sensitive bums. Instead of risking your baby's smooth skin, just use a damp cloth. Studies say that breastfed babies don't need baby wipes because their feces and urine are low in acid and bacteria. You can easily clean them off with a damp cloth.

Faster Sterilization

You might think that sterilizing the baby bottles is time-consuming and stressful, but it isn't anymore. Doing it the old-fashion way with an expensive home sterilizer is not the only way to do it anymore. Just toss everything inside your dishwasher, put some soap, and run it on a short and hot cycle.

Babies like Music

Although you might think that babies can't appreciate symphonies and melodies, they can. The sound of soothing instruments and a warm voice can calm your baby down. You can turn on the CD player while on the road and it can even put a baby to sleep.

No Rush for Shoes

You don't really need to put shoes on your toddler's feet until he or she can walk. Socks are the only feet accessory babies need just to prevent their feet from getting dirty. It's more practical to save the money until your baby really needs them.

With a little bit of pediatric help and online research for baby care tips, you can take care of your baby with ease and assurance. Don't make the task harder than it should be so you could enjoy a good night's sleep along with your newborn.


Author,
Kate Q Wills

Gripe Water Pros and Cons

ripe water for babies has been a tradition since time immemorial. But do you know what some gripe water pros and cons are? Read this article to know all about it.

Gripe water has been given to babies for several centuries as an accepted tradition, and society seems to have taken that as a natural course of order. I'm positive that many of us rarely stop to think about the pros and cons of giving gripe water to babies. For example, the ingredients that are used in its making or whether there are any harmful side effects of the same or other similar details. But, is that the right way to go about it? If you're pregnant and about to have a baby soon, then it would do you good to read the article because it focuses on the gripe water pros and cons and helps you in taking an informed decision for your baby.

Gripe Water for Babies: Pros and Cons

All mothers are every bit careful when it comes to their babies, especially newborns. Then being skeptical about gripe water or having thorough knowledge about the pros and cons of gripe water is not a bad idea at all. In fact, it should be encouraged. If there are any gripe water problems then they should be brought out in the open.

Gripe water for babies helps to relieve them of colic, i.e., extended periods of crying (over 3 hours or more), in an otherwise healthy baby, believed to be caused by a digestive system that is not mature enough. It is said that the gripe water ingredients provide the much-needed relief that massages or any other medication cannot provide. These gripe water ingredients include ginger, fennel, dill, peppermint, cinnamon, cardamom, angelica, caraway, catnip, fructose, and chamomile. Although these herbs are used in gripe water, the most common ingredients that are found in all gripe waters include fennel, ginger, peppermint, and chamomile.

Gripe Water: Pros

Natural Ingredients

Gripe water contains natural ingredients like fennel, chamomile, and more (as is mentioned above). So that makes it a very healthy drink to have.

Aids Digestion

Colic usually affects 25% of the babies and starts around the period of 3 weeks after birth. It is said that this comes about because the digestive system of the baby is not fully developed at this time and, therefore, they develop gas in their stomachs. This gas is what makes them cry out in pain. Gripe water is known to convert the tiny bubbles of gas into one whole gas bubble, which becomes easier to burp out and leads to relief. That is how gripe water aids in digestion.

Teething Pains

Some parents have reported that gripe water also helps to soothe the pain that comes with baby teething.

No Side Effects

Another gripe water advantage is that it has no side effects on the baby. Being made out of all natural ingredients like, fennel and peppermint-which if taken individually, would also help the baby-do not lead to any untoward effect on babies. This is a major advantage.

Easy Availability

Gripe water is easily available at all medical shops and the price is very affordable as well. So it's not like one has to struggle to get it. And, therefore, it can be easily given to colicky babies.

Gripe Water: Cons

Alcohol Content

One has to be very careful when giving their baby gripe water. It has been known that some gripe water brands have alcohol in them (probably to induce sleep). Which is not good for an infant. Make sure that you read the contents and ingredients on the label of the bottle before purchasing it.

Time period

Gripe water, it is said, should not be given to infants who are less than a month old. Their systems are still fragile and might not be able to deal with the influx of so many ingredients. So if a baby becomes colicky, one cannot do anything but try and deal with it in other ways, even though gripe water might act as the perfect pacifier.

Trial and Error

The thing with gripe water is that, one can never be sure that one particular product will be best suited for their baby. One has to undergo a process of trial and error to see which brand is the most effective. It is possible that while one product might not work for the baby, the other might be just perfect. So until the time one keys in on the most effective product, the trial and error method has to be taken as a natural course. Many times, one might find that gripe water does not work at all, as one might have hoped it would.

Hiccups

Quite often infants are affected by hiccups along with suffering from colic. It is said that gripe water does nothing for hiccups in babies. However, there have been other cases which report otherwise. So, one needs to test it for themselves to ensure the same.

These were some of the gripe water pros and cons that I have listed and explained through this article. 

 

Choose a product well and hope that your baby is not troubled by these niggling problems anymore. 

 

All the best!

Author,

Rujuta Borkar

Causes of Fussy Baby at Night

Managing a baby is a very tough thing to do and those who have been through this experience even once, would prefer to keep it at that. Take a look at some common reasons for a fussy baby at night and how to take care of him/her.

When you have a baby at home who cries at night, it's quite tough to find out what exactly is bothering the baby in the commotion to quieten him/her. You try out many things like changing the diapers, feeding, singing or even taking him out for walks in the middle of the night. But it's not very easy to find out if there are any internal problems that are bothering the child. Since a baby cannot communicate or express the pain, the only way he can show something's wrong is by crying and making a fuss. Generally, in the first few months after birth, babies take time to adapt and adjust to the environment outside the mother's womb and thus they turn fussy at night. They may suffer from gas, rashes, acidity and many other metabolic issues which can be expressed by grown ups but not by babies. The only way you can take care of a fussy baby at night is to feed and keep him clean, as much as you can.

At Bedtime

A newborn, as mentioned above is very new to the atmosphere outside the mother's womb and takes at least some months to adjust. They sleep for as much as 16 hours a day and sometimes even more, stretching to about 3 to 4 hours continuously. They have different types of sleeps in these 16 hours like drowsiness, rapid eye movement, light sleep, deep sleep and very deep sleep. If the baby feels anything wrong in the first few stages of sleep, he may not be very fussy. But when there are disturbances which awakens the baby from the later stages of deep sleep, he gets quite fussy and it is very difficult to put him back to sleep.

Causes

The first and the most basic reason is the baby needs a diaper change and the wet one is making sleep uncomfortable.

Hunger is another reason, if you haven't fed the baby according to the daily schedule. If you have fed him, but he/she is still hungry and not full, you may just about have a fussy baby. They need to be fed every two hours in the first few months and thus need to take care of their little tummies.

If the baby is feeling hot or cold and can't sleep due to environment conditions. Usually babies need thick bedding around them but sometimes can sweat or get chills due to the weather.

Body rashes and boils in uncomfortable places can also make him cry and fuss about sleeping.

Gas or acidity inside the tummy can also make sleepimg difficult and unmanageable.

If he is suffering from chickenpox, fever, diarrhea or any other health issues, you are definitely going to stay up all night.

How to Comfort a Crying Baby

When you know that your baby is crying and can't get sleep, check if he has a dirty diaper and if yes, then change it.

If your baby is hungry, don't ignore him because you haven't slept and are tired. Instead feed him and he may sleep peacefully. You can then take a nap as well.

Taking care for the first few years till the baby is dependent on you is not an easy job. Make sure you've checked for rashes and other skin abnormalities before you put him off to sleep, as all the baby can do when things go wrong, is cry.

If the baby has an illness like a common cold or any of the above mentioned diseases, make sure you've given the proper medicines so he gets sound sleep and doesn't fuss at night.

After you have checked all the necessary things for the night, sing a lullaby and let him sleep on you.

The parent's touch or voice is a big comfort for children and gives them the assurance that they are protected and safe. Once he is asleep on your shoulder or arms, then gently lay him in the crib (don't forget to keep his favorite toy).

I am sure you love to play with the tiny fingers and watch the baby when he is asleep. Being a parent is a beautiful experience and sacrificing your sleep and health for those little ones is definitely worth

Author,

Aparna Jadhav

Taking Care of Your Premature Baby at Home

After getting discharged from the hospital, you must be anxious about the proper care of your newborn preemie. For your assistance, we have provided you the correct ways of handling and caring for your premature baby. Have a look.

When you give birth to a premature baby, responsibilities increase in number. It's because he is born before the gestation period is over and, therefore, he might not be as healthy as a full-term baby.

 

 However, there's nothing to worry about as your doctor will let you know everything about caring your preemie. It's natural for mothers to face a little difficulty initially, but once they get into the process, it becomes an overwhelming experience. The more quickly you learn the various ways to nourish your baby, the more beneficial it will be for him.

Taking Care of Your Premature Baby at Home: Tips

Holding Your Baby

The first thing you should know is the right way to hold your baby. His head is intensely delicate and it requires support while sleeping and when awake. Place your hand behind his head and lift it gently. 

Rest your other hand on his hips or on the back. When you grip your baby this way, his entire body weight will be balanced on your hands. This technique known as containment holding is the safest way to handle your preemie. You can follow the same method while bathing him or laying him down on the bed.

Right Feeding Techniques

Even though it is highly satisfying as a mother to breastfeed your baby, this feeding technique cannot always be opted for in the case of premature babies. Your baby might be too weak to suck or he might get tired while doing so. Doctors suggest mothers to express milk into a bottle and then feed, when their babies are unable to suck naturally. This can be manually done by applying pressure around your nipples and then storing the milk in a sterilized bottle or cup. You can then feed him from the bottle or with a spoon. Sometimes, tube feeding is also performed on premature babies. Although it might seem a tough job for mothers, knowing the technique properly will eliminate every kind of feeding problems. Your baby will receive adequate nourishment and his health will improve very quickly. The feeding schedule will be determined by your doctor and you can follow it accordingly.

Adequate Sleep and Rest

More than ten hours of undisturbed sleep is a must for a premature baby. Babies born before the completion of the gestation period, although tend to sleep more, do so for short periods. Therefore, you have to take care of his surrounding and make it conducive for sleeping. Do not play loud music or keep your television turned on while he is sleeping. Always keep an eye on him while he is sleeping and make sure that he lies on his back and not on his stomach. The mattress should be firm enough to support his back and head. You shouldn't panic if he wakes up crying in between. This is quite natural as he will take time to get adjusted to the new environment. The best part is to watch the innocent smile on his face when he dreams.

Protecting from Infections

Babies born premature are prone to infections as their immune system take time to become strong. Your baby can have respiration problems and be susceptible to colds and fevers quite often. It's, therefore, better to take precautions early on. Avoid taking him out to public places, like shopping malls, theaters, etc. Keep his room well-ventilated and not air-conditioned. Feeding bottles should be sterilized and his diapers must be changed at frequent intervals. Make sure that people coming to visit your newborn, wash their hands before touching. To be on the safe side, try to keep your baby away from unnecessary touching and cuddling of visitors.

Bathing your Preemie

It's the most crucial of all the premature baby care tasks. First place the bathtub on the ground and fill it with lukewarm water (test it before bathing your baby). Place your baby in the tub and support his head with one hand. Gradually apply the soap and rinse gently with water. Let him relax while you wipe his face and wash his hair. Do not pour water randomly. Perform everything with one hand while holding your baby with the other. Wrap a soft towel around his body and dry him completely. You can bathe him properly twice a week and give him a warm sponge bath for the rest of the days.

Essence of Kangaroo Care

Kangaroo care is suggested by doctors for holistic development of preemie babies. So how is this possible? It's actually a kind of touch therapy, wherein you lie down straight on your back and allow your baby to rest on your bare chest. You can turn your baby on his side so that your heartbeat is audible to him. Another position is placing his head on your bosom and his tummy on your tummy (i.e. tummy-to-tummy contact). So the baby will actually be lying on his stomach on you. You can play, talk, and cuddle him in this position. Kangaroo care boosts growth and regulates body temperature. Your baby will also improve his sucking ability, sleep more, and gain weight rapidly.

Additional Tips

You have to monitor your baby's growth and development. Doctors suggest vitamins and nutritional supplements which must be administered regularly.

If your preemie was born with lung disease and gastrointestinal problems, then the medicines prescribed by your doctor must be continued.

In chronic conditions, you can install alarm systems, which will immediately make you aware of this health status. Such alarms are usually kept for babies suffering from apnea, irregular heartbeat, etc.

The benefits of baby massage should be known to all moms. Let you baby lie on his cot and you can gently massage every part of his body with baby oil.

You can learn the cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) procedure before getting discharged. This proves helpful in cases of emergency.

You must also keep an account of his vaccination doses and get them done on the specified dates.

Apart from all these, you should spend the maximum time with your baby and try to talk, play, and laugh with him. Observe how he responds to your gestures while being in the playful mood. You can also keep a part-time nurse for help. Above all, it's the mother's love that he receives improves his health and accentuates growth. So wishing you a happy motherhood.

Newborn Baby Care

Newborn baby care can be a very overwhelming task for those who have never handled the responsibility. The following article will guide you through this time.

The entry of a baby in your life is a euphoria equaled by not many other moments. Holding the baby in your arms for the first time and the sweeping over of that fierce need to protect, the instinct to be there for him and keep him away from any harm is paramount. But it's not to say that it does not get overwhelming for a new parent to ensure that proper care is administered. Knowing that the baby is completely dependent on you for all his needs and wanting to provide only the best for him will be the only thought that crosses a parent's mind. In such a case, having a newborn care guide that takes you through the motions of how to handle the task comes as a relief. In the following sections, we will look through some of the important things that go into caring for a newborn and ensure that your baby is well taken care of.

Hygiene

Personal, baby, and overall hygiene is the most important thing when it comes to a newborn. A newborn does not have a highly developed immune system like adults do and that is why even a little carelessness can lead to infections or diseases. Wash your hands and legs thoroughly before handling a baby and make sure that the baby clothes, baby bedding, and other items that are used by the baby are sanitized and clean. Make sure that you cut the baby's nails with a baby nail cutter to prevent the accumulation of dirt (which could lead to an infection) and to prevent the possibility of the baby scratching itself. Along with that, sterilizing the baby bottles is also important.

Changing Diapers

All diapers should be sanitized and clean. After your baby has dirtied the diaper, remove it and proceed to wipe the baby with cotton balls that have been dipped in warm water. Tie a new diaper around the baby. It is very common for newborns to get a diaper rash. In this case, apply a good ointment and keep the baby out of the diaper for a few hours so that it heals well.

Holding a Baby

A newborn is not capable of supporting the weight of its head because its neck is not yet developed and strong enough. Always remember that when you pick the baby up, support its neck with your hands at all times. A newborn is delicate and easily hurt so do not make any sudden and harsh movements with it like shaking it or playing with it. While the baby sleeps at night, make sure that it is placed on its back. Alternate the sides of his head from left to right every night so that he/she does not develop a flat spot. The temptation to hold a baby is great, but do not awaken him/her for it, the baby needs to sleep and will do so for 16 hours a day as well.

Bonding and Comforting

A newborn baby will cry. A lot. Because that is the only way he/she can communicate that something is wrong. And at that time he needs to know that you're there for him. Your baby needs you to be close to him/her physically to be assured of that. Make sure both parents are holding the baby and spending time stroking and talking to him. Babies respond well to sounds, so talking in a soft soothing voice and dulcet tones will help comfort the baby and help you bond.

Bonding with the baby should start while the baby is in the womb itself. It has been proven that newborn babies respond to and are soothed by sounds that they've heard while in the womb. For example, if you have been singing a particular song or listening to it while pregnant, and if you sing the same song when the baby cries, there are chances that the baby will stop crying immediately. This is because he knows the sound of that song, finds it familiar, and is therefore comforted by it. All new parents develop their own unique style of comforting the baby using a combination of soothing sounds and holding positions―in a few days, you will too. One such method of comforting the baby that is seen to work wonders is swaddling the baby. This method replicates for them the security of the womb.

Feeding the Baby

Breastfeeding is recommended for your newborn instead of giving him formula. This helps you to bond and supplies nutrients that prevents the onset of several diseases. Baby feeding should be done every time the baby is hungry and not based on what a book says. A newborn will need to nurse 8-10 times a day. Make sure that you nurse the baby at each breast. Monitor its schedule well and contact a doctor if you feel that the baby is not interested in taking a feed. A baby who has been feeding well should be gaining weight regularly. Burping a baby is also important so that you prevent your baby from getting colicky. Hold the baby against your shoulder and while supporting its neck gently pat the baby's back. Continue with this till the baby burps.

The anxiety of handling a newborn baby can get very overwhelming. But with these tips on the important aspects of baby care and the things you need for a new baby, your job should become a fraction easier. Keep these tips in mind, follow your heart and enjoy motherhood. In the end, that's all that's important, correct?

Newborn Baby Care For First Time Parents - The Absolute Essentials

Preparing for a newborn baby can be a daunting task even for seasoned parents, let alone first timers. It's hard to decide what baby care items you really need and whose advice is best to follow. What our parents and grandparents did may not coincide with the recommended procedures for babies today. One of the main differences you'll find is the recommendation for placing baby on his or her back when putting to sleep. SIDS, or sudden infant death syndrome, is a serious threat that should never be taken lightly. Not only must you always remember to put your baby on his back to sleep, but you must ALWAYS make sure that grandparents, great-grandparents and any caregiver knows this as well. You can never take it for granted that they automatically know that "back is best".

Newborn babies will spend the majority of their time sleeping and eating. For this reason, it is important that you help them to be safe while doing both. When sleeping your baby should be in a crib without any blankets, stuffed animals or toys. The mattress should be firm and should be covered with a tight fitting crib sheet. It's important to never over dress your baby or to prop baby up on pillows, etc. There are wearable blankets that you can put on your baby to keep him warm. Just be sure that it is not oversized.

Some first time parents are tempted to allow their baby to sleep in their beds or in car seats or bouncer seats, baby swings, etc. Beds are especially dangerous because of the potential for suffocation with pillows, blankets, the mattress itself or even you. Car seats, bouncer seats and swings have been known to cause damage to baby's spine and to cause SIDS related deaths because the immature airway is easily blocked off when baby slumps down in the seat. For this reason it's also extremely important to never leave your baby unattended in any baby swing, bouncer seat or car seat, ever.

In the first few days, you'll want to keep the nasal aspiration bulb that you received from the hospital wherever your baby is. If you can keep more than one around the house, that's even better. Often times the first day or two your baby will try to expel mucus and might be unable to do so his or herself. When that happens, you'll need to use the aspirator bulb to get the mucus out of the baby's mouth or throat. Be sure that you know how to do this before you leave the hospital. Do not assume that you will not need to use the bulb. Always keep the bulb beside the baby when he or she is in their car seat, swing, bouncer seat or crib. Wherever the baby goes, the bulb should go too. It's also good to keep an extra on the diaper changing table and in your diaper bag. Be sure that any caregiver also knows how to use the bulb.

Bathing a newborn is not usually recommended for a few days. Check with your baby's pediatrician to see when he or she recommends that you begin. Usually a little bit of warm water on a wash cloth is enough, especially in the first few weeks. You will not want to get the umbilical cord stump wet. Also be sure that you never leave a baby in or near water unattended. You should be within arms reach always. To care for the umbilical stump, use a Q-Tip dipped in alcohol and swab around the stump at every diaper change. Follow your baby's pediatrician's advice here as well.

You'll want to make sure that any visitors are not sick and that everyone washes their hands before holding or touching your baby. Illnesses such as RSV and the flu are especially dangerous for newborns with immature immune systems.

Also, never leave children or pets around a newborn baby even if you think you can trust them, not even for a second.

You'll want to keep an eye out, especially in the first several days for a yellowish tint in your baby's skin. If you notice anything like that, report it to your baby's pediatrician right away. It could indicate jaundice which can be easily remedied if caught early enough. Left untreated, jaundice can cause permanent damage to your baby's brain and even death. Also be sure to promptly report to your child's doctor any feeding problems, noisy or trouble breathing, and/or a fever over.

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Baby Food Grinders and Food Processors - The Key to Making Nutritious Food at Home

If you're a mom that has always dreamed of creating healthy and nutritious foods for your baby without the hassles, then you should consider a baby food grinder or electronic food processor to process your baby's food at home. These clever and devices allow moms to prepare healthy and nutritious foods at home by grinding them into smaller pieces. Plus, both devices allow babies to safely eat ground up or processed fears without fear of them choking on large pieces. With a baby food grinder or an electronic food processor, moms can soften up and grind prepared foods in a short time.

Sound interesting? You bet it is. In this brief article, we'll discuss the benefits of baby food grinders and food processors and proven you with preparation tips that you can use in buying these cool but important gadgets.

Similarities between food processors and baby food grinders:

1. Prevent risk of infant choking by turning large chunks of food into smaller ones.

2. Help save money because parents don't have to purchase expensive baby food and can feed children healthy and nutritious meals at home.

3. Allow you to puree and strain all types of foods including bones and skin.

4. Enable babies to easily transition from processed to solid food is easier because they are already used to the taste of ground or processed food.

Differences between baby food grinders and processors:

1. Baby food grinders are typically hand held decixs that don't use batteries or electricity. In comparison, food processors do.

2. They tend to be cheaper than food processors.

3. These allow parents to grind up food anywhere whereas food processor don't

4. Food processors can be used for other purposes as well.

Now that we've discussed the similarities and differences between the two, we'll now discuss some tips that you should consider when searching for a grinder or processor:

1. Choose one that is made by a reputable company. Make sure that it meets quality control standards and properly grinds up the food.

2. When using your grinder or processor, make sure that you clean your hands easily as well as the area before proceeding.

3. Clean your grinding or processing equipment thoroughly after usage.

4. Keep in mind that some foods will have to be cooked before being ground or processed.

5. Always check for smoothness before giving to your baby to prevent choking hazards.

In conclusion, baby food grinders and food processors are a wonderful investment for the new or seasoned mother. Not only do they help prevent choking hazards but they are easy to operate and quite affordable. When searching for a food processor or baby food grinder, make sure that you purchase from a reputable company. Once you do all this, you'll be able to find a great device for you to use at home. And, you'll be able to give your baby a healthy and nutritious meal they can safely grow on.

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First-Time Mothers - Where to Get Tips For Proper Baby Care

The thought of having a baby always excites first time mothers. Who wouldn't be? You are now given a gift of being able to bring forth a delicate life into this world. Comes with motherhood is always that great responsibility of taking care of the baby. Sometimes the first time that a mother would hold her baby in her arms, it becomes a scary experience because of the fragile and delicate features of the baby. It is always a good thing for first time mothers to be able to get the proper tips or information in giving the baby the proper care. The question always be, where?

Well, you always have your mother to consult when it comes to the proper baby care. It is said that mothers never stop being one because they still have their grandchildren to care for. So, whenever you need to learn how to take care of your baby, always ask your Mom. She has the right experience and she would only be giving you the best advice there is.

If your Mother isn't around or is too old to travel to reach you, and if you have friends who were already mothers, then you can also ask them to help you out. It is always a good thing to ask mothers whenever it comes to child care. Their experiences in taking care of their children could greatly contribute to your knowledge. Also, considering that each wonderful motherly experience is unique, you can learn valuable tips that you yourself could apply in your daily tasks of taking care of your baby.

You can also consult baby books. There are practically thousands of books available on proper baby care that you can read. These books were written by mothers who like to share their experiences in taking care of babies and give priceless advice on everything that pertains to baby care.

If you don't have time to go the bookstore, you always have the Internet where you can find a lot of resources. There are many dedicated websites that deals with everything pertaining to the family, and you would surely find tips on how to take care of your baby. From grooming, feeding, bathing, and traveling, the Internet has a lot of resources that deal with these topics.

In giving the proper baby care, it is always your motherly instinct that will prevail. Tips would always be available but it is you first and foremost who knows what your baby needs. Just pay close attention to the cries of your baby and you will never go wrong.

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Organic Baby Care

Shopping for organic baby care products may seem somewhat baffling, but it is not. Keep these shopping tips in mind when searching for your baby's next diaper, toy, health product, or meal.

Choosing Organic Baby Toys

When shopping for organic baby toys, avoid phthalates that are known to cause cancer and are associated with infertility. In addition, keep in mind that polyvinyl chloride (also known as PVC) is found in plastic baby toys. PVC has also been linked to many health ailments including cancer.

 Lastly, consider the materials that plush toy is made of before it makes its way into the nursery. 

Mostly likely (unless otherwise indicated) stuffed animals contain synthetic fibers that contain petrochemicals. While the industry standards find this acceptable, organic mommies think twice about the idea of letting their babies roll around with a toy that gives off toxic gas even after being washed.

Organic Diapers

Making the switch from disposable to organic diapers is a major lifestyle change. In the long run, however, cloth diapers are not only environmentally friendly, but baby friendly as well. Before deciding on which is best for your family, consider this - disposable diapers are filled with gels, pesticides, chlorine, and other toxins. These toxins can be absorbed through the skin of the baby and straight into the blood stream. Once a disposable diaper is thrown away, it takes up to 500 years for it to break down in a landfill. Compare that figure to organic cloth diapers that can be used as many as 150 times and then recycled into hand rags.

If cloth diapers are a bit too much to take on, consider a combination of the two. You can utilize chlorine-free disposable diapers for outings and bedtime and reserve the cloth diapers for times when you and your baby are at home. Remember, every little bit helps.

Organic Skin Care For Baby

Did you know that a baby's skin exceptionally thinner than yours? In fact, your baby has skin that is five times thinner than the average adult. Keep this fact in mind when considering what skin care products to use on your child. Ask your pediatrician to refer you to a baby skin care product that is both safe and age-appropriate.

Organic Labels

Perhaps you have already seen the USDA "Organic" label in stores and on baby products. When you buy USDA Organic labels, you are purchasing an item that is free of antibiotics, genetically modified organisms, food additives, pesticides, irradiation, and other synthetic chemicals that are dangerous to your baby. Organic labels can be found on a variety of items including cotton, skin care items, and food.

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Natural Baby Care For Your Newborn

With ever newer technology these days we oftentimes forget that the old ways of doing things had a lot going for them, and that old fashioned techniques were more natural. This applies to raising babies as well. Natural methods are the best way to care for your child since they use no chemicals and rely on what comes naturally to you. Using fewer chemicals both in the home and on your baby is a great way to get started with natural baby care.

Bath time can be a great way for you to relax and spend some time with your little one. Just use caution when choosing natural baby care products. Even though a product might advertise itself as all natural, you should read the fine print with care. Make sure that all the ingredients are all truly natural and there are no chemical additives.

Products such as baby shampoo aren't essential for keeping your baby clean. You can simply use soap and water at bath time to wash your baby's hair. While some parents choose to give their baby a bath in a sink or bucket, using a proper baby bathtub will help make bath time easier and more fun.

When bath time is over, give your baby a massage to help him fall asleep more easily and restfully. 

Teach yourself some infant massage techniques and find out about its benefits. You will only apply very gentle pressure to your baby, but both baby and parents will enjoy the results. You and your baby both will get more sleep. Use natural baby care oils that will not harm your newborn's sensitive skin.

Natural baby care also involves using only clothing made from natural fibers. Cotton is your best choice, as it is the most comfortable and breathable material for babies. Stay away from synthetic materials, which can often be uncomfortable to your baby's skin and can lead to allergies in some cases.

Using natural fibers should also be a rule when it comes to bedding. Generally, baby bedding is manufactured from natural fibers, but you should still be cautious and check the label before buying anything. And be sure to use an all natural soap when laundering your baby's bedding and clothing.

A baby sling is another way to care for your baby naturally. These devices allow you to keep your baby close to your body while still leaving your hands free to do other things.

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Newborn Baby Health and Colic - Keeping Your Little One Healthy

Every new parent wants to be certain that their baby grows up healthy, but conflicting information abounds. Whether it's well-meaning advice from grandma, an article in the latest parents' magazine, or tips from friends with children, there can be any number of differing opinions as to what's best for baby. With so many choices out there, it can be difficult to know what information is reliable, especially on the topic of colic - a problem with no single fool-proof solution.

Fortunately, even if your baby does develop colic, you can take solace in the fact that newborn baby health is not severely impacted in most cases. With so many babies having colicky symptoms at some point, doctors have developed a set of criteria that defines whether or not a baby has colic. It's called the "rule of three" and most pediatricians refer to this rule when diagnosing excessive crying in an infant:

1. Baby is at least 3 weeks old
2. Baby cries for at least 3 hours at a time
3. Crying occurs more than 3 days per week
4. Crying pattern lasts for more than 3 weeks

This "rule of three" is the typical pattern of the colicky infant, who is otherwise well-fed and healthy. Other symptoms, such as gassiness or reflux may occur along with the crying. For this reason, many parents choose to treat their newborn with medications and remedies designed to help digestion. As long as the pediatrician is made aware of these treatments, it's generally a safe option.

But what about the advice of just letting the baby "cry it out"? With colic, there is no outward problem that the parents can alleviate, and the stress caused by listening to an inconsolable infant for hours at a time can prove extremely stressful for parents. While you can be sure that newborn baby health is not negatively affected by colic, stressed-out parents can and should seek some relief. This can be as simple as handling a tearful baby in shifts, or taking a quick five-minute breather with baby in another room.

Well-meaning advice from parents who have handled colic in their own families should be considered as well. Parents who have dealt with the issue before are usually more sympathetic and understanding. While their advice may or may not work for your little one, just having someone to talk to who understands can be a major benefit.

While there is no one cure-all for colic, you can keep your little one healthy by tending to his or her needs as always. Regular immunizations should not be overlooked, and keep to a regular feeding and napping schedule as much as possible. Soon enough, the crying will be a thing of the past.

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Celebrating Birth of Babies With Holistic Baby Care

In The Beginning...

The birth of a baby marks a grand beginning. It's also the celebration of a new life.

Mothers who gave birth to their babies have just embarked on a lifelong and eventful journey, growing and nurturing them eventually to adulthood. What is to come is a rich blend of pleasures and anxieties.

Baby Care Can Be Challenging 

There are pleasures because the newborn baby is just a bundle of joy! Babies bring lots of fun and "play" to family life. Anxieties will be high for many mothers, however, especially for those who are ill-prepared and inexperienced. Many mothers with grown-up children can testify to the fact that baby care isn't going to be smooth-sailing or easy. In fact, it can get quite messy at times.

Babies tend to grow quite quickly between the ages of one and three years. During these times, they will experience many changes. Mothers, facing many challenges this season must do their best to help their babies become independent, stay healthy and remain happy.

The First Few Months 

The first few months following their birth are vital for babies. At this stage babies have a strong need to feel love and secure. They seek to have both needs met through playing, interacting, experimenting and learning.

Also, parents must not underestimate the need and value of giving their babies quality time, cuddling and stroking them to ensure that they are always comfortable, warm and healthy.

Babies Can and Should Learn 

Babies will have to learn from their parents about how to remain secure and also to receive love, comfort and warmth. Such ongoing mother-baby interactions are especially necessary to help newborns find pleasure, feel loved and experience a deeper sense of security. They will also help prepare babies for their next season of growth.

Babies also need to learn how to do things on their own such as shaking their rattles to make some noise, while parents must ensure that their babies are fed whenever it becomes necessary and to also ensure that the baby is always feeling comfortable.

Toys Matter More Than You Know

Toys as baby gift play an important part in the life of a baby. So much thought and care is needed when selecting toys for your baby.

When choosing toys for babies it is necessary to ensure that you keep things simple. Do not go overboard with giving them electronic toys. It won't do babies any good buying toys that do not help in encouraging them to imagine things; a stuffed animal or doll that can talk and sing, for example, is a good choice.

Select Your Toys Purposefully

The goal should be to promote spontaneity and creativity in babies and it is not wise to give them something that does not help them stretch and use all their senses and imagination.

There are also many risks involved in giving electronic toys to a baby. These include risking slower child development and even weight gain. Electronic toys can also hamper the baby's ability to think on its own. In extreme cases, they could even cause hearing impairment as well as delayed progress with language and other developments.

Holistic Baby Care 

Beyond play and interactions, parents ought to pay special attention to the nutritional needs of babies. They should ensure that the baby gets enough calories as well as plenty of energy by giving appropriate foods. It is also necessary to ensure that the baby is not fed with too big a portion of food as that will overwhelm the baby's appetite and also be more than what the little stomach can hold.

When it comes to baby care, parents need to pay special attention to the health of their newborn baby. The bottom line includes but not limited to ensuring that the baby gets plenty of food, their skin is well taken care of, and enough sleep.

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Newborn Baby Care - How to Take Care of Newborn Baby

Giving birth to a child is sometimes really amazing and it is safe when the baby is in its mother's womb. From the instant the baby emerges from the cocoon, you need to pay special attention and there is plenty of it in newborn baby care about "how to take care of newborn baby". Know well what will be the newborn baby needs, except for the love that you offer. You need a good knowledge in taking care of the baby connected with food, sleep and skin. It's sometimes excruciating that you can't handle it to your wishes since the skin, eyes, bottom and other features are so delicate. There are some common problems with skin conditions like baby gerbils, baby acne, cradle caps and heat rash with sunburn common with newborns of any country.

Baby skin care: Skin care is the foremost factor in spite of its adaptability to the new environment. Skin is so red that it offers irritation and infection to every touch. So, it's best to wash cloths with special detergents. Baby skin loses moisture quickly and it needs time to absorb and retain moisture to its need. So, keeping your child with cold or warm perfume baths daily is not suggestive but may be on alternative days suiting other conditions. New born baby care is so gentle that it needs special treatment. It's best for protecting the baby from bacterial infection by using homemade baby wipes and diaper to cleaning your little ones.

Umbilical cord: Until and after the falling down, the area around the umbilical cord should be kept clean with hygienic soft cotton with alcohol application.

Head care: Head is so delicate with soft hair. To keep clean use only baby skin care natural shampoo perhaps the same product. The pulpy scalp is a protected area against rough handling when padding anything around it.

Heat rash and sunburn: Skin learns to accommodate with new surrounding and so nothing is there to worry. Whatsoever, keeping off the baby from direct sunlight for a long time should be avoided as a measure of infant care against heat effects. Protecting the baby appropriately perhaps with cheap baby clothing suiting to the weather is wise of the mother.

Baby acne and cradle caps: Baby acne may have its effect for the first two or three months but no need to treat unless infected. It is protected with homely and regular baby baths with natural care therapy. Cradle caps should be handled with soft brush to clean using some herbal moisturizer. It's best to use natural baby products avoiding synthetic products like talcum powder complimented by organic skin care treatments to avoid dry skin.

Newborn baby care is not so easy to all. It is a skill with the parents especially the mother to know how to take care of newborn baby.

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How to Prepare Your Dog for Your Newborn Baby

If you are like much of the population, your four-legged friend is your first "baby." Many people worry needlessly about how their dog will handle a baby in their life. Many owners think of getting rid of the family pets because of fears that they will harm the baby. Please do not do this unless there is no other option. Most dogs, when treated and trained properly, can handle life with a newborn very well.

Children and pets make wonderful companions when raised properly together and taught how to behave with each other. Children that grow up in a home with pets learn respect and love for animals, and more importantly, respect for life. As the children grow older they can learn responsibility by helping to care for the animals. Animals enrich our and our children's lives beyond belief.

Having a baby can cause problems for both humans and dogs, as the dog tends to be treated differently, and because of this, may act differently. Some owners baby the dog more, causing the dog to become spoiled and hard to handle. Other owners get over-stressed and punish the dog for normal, curious behavior toward the baby. Often our pets are the center of our world, our "babies" if you would, and can get "jealous" if not equipped to handle losing that status to the new baby. If you are willing to make the time and effort to prepare your pets for the new arrival, everyone can live in harmony.

Sometimes the dogs become overprotective of the baby. Many owners enjoy and even prefer the dog being a guard for the baby. While it is normal for the dog to become protective of the baby, it is dangerous for the dog to become overprotective and not let anyone near the baby. All of the above scenarios can lead to the dog being kicked out of the house!

As you are making preparations to bring home baby, you need to prepare your dog(s) for the same in advance if possible. While most dogs will be very gentle with the baby, many dogs do not see babies as humans because of their size, smell, and the strange noises they make. By taking the time to give your dog some extra love and attention he should be fine and not turn to bad behavior to get your attention. You need to prepare and educate your dog for what lies ahead. This will ensure that they are ready and willing to accept the new family member with open and loving paws.

Using calming remedies (herbs, aromatherapy, oils) and or prescription medications are also an option to help facilitate a better behaved dog. You can talk to your veterinarian to inquire about these products and the implications associated with their use. I am a believer in the holistic approach whenever possible, instead of using drugs.

Please, please always be aware that your dog is an animal and animals can bite or do harm to a baby, intentionally or unintentionally. No matter how well-behaved or loving your dog is NEVER LEAVE YOUR DOG ALONE WITH YOUR BABY! I cannot stress this enough. Accidents can happen. You do not want to harm your baby or have to get rid of your dog because of an unfortunate, and possibly avoidable, incident.

If you are unsure that your dog will accept your new baby, please seek the advice of a professional trainer or behaviorist before making any decisions.

Believe it or not, your behavior with, and toward your dog matters. It can make or break your dog's acceptance of and respect for your baby. If you act like a leader, you will be treated like a leader. You want your dog to respect every human being in your household, including your baby. You must teach your dog respect for the baby. This will make life easier for all those involved.

Be firm but fair-

Do not let your dog get away with things, but don't be a drill sergeant either! Try to make any corrections as gentle as possible, but make sure they are effective. Try to have fun with your dog and the training - you both need to enjoy it or neither one will want to continue!

Your tone of voice matters- 

DO NOT YELL at your dog! Convey the meaning of the command through the tone of voice - match your voice to what you are telling your dog. Commands should be short and succinct, in a low, almost growling voice. Your voice should not get higher as you give the command. Do not sing to your dog or ask the dog a question! You will not get the answer you want! When giving praise, sound like you mean it! It should be the opposite of a command - higher pitched and enthusiastic. If your dog gets overly excited when you praise him, tone it down a bit and speak softly. Your dog will still understand that he is doing a good job, but he will be less likely to jump around and be crazy.

Be calm and assertive-

Our dogs feed off of our energies and emotions. This affects their behaviors and reactions. If we are relaxed and confident, our dogs will feel the same, and know that we are LEADING them, and they do not have to lead us.

Use a crate-

If your dog does not already use a crate, now is the time to start. A crate is not cruel, it can actually be a wonderful and safe place for your dog. Confining your dog at certain times, such as for sleep or times when you cannot supervise, is no different than putting your baby in its crib for the same. It is actually very easy to teach your dog to accept being in the crate. Most people think that a dog who has not used a crate before will have a hard time, but that is not usually true. My two older dogs started using the crate when they were 7 and 8 years old, about the time my son started crawling and exploring on his own. This allowed me to know that both my child and my dogs were safe and nothing bad could happen. Your child can be hurt by your dog as easy as your child could hurt your dog. The problem lies in the fact that if the dog makes even the slightest threat to your baby or even inadvertently hurts your baby, it is your dog's fault. It is not fair to the dog for something like that to happen because you were not supervising the two together at all times!

Eliminate bad manners-

Bad manners cannot be accepted as they can be dangerous to a new baby and a new mom. Jumping and nipping are behaviors that need to be stopped right away. Stealing and rough-play also need to be nipped in the bud immediately.

Teach your dog how to be calm and gentle, by praising and treating this behavior.

Working commands into everyday life and play makes listening easy and normal for your dog. It becomes natural to the dog and it is less-likely that your dog will be out-of-control. It is also good for you too, as it makes sure that you are training your dog everyday, making you the leader - not the follower.

Exercise is key for good behavior-

As I stated earlier in the guide, exercise is imperative for your dog. This ensures that your dog will be better behaved because it doesn't have the energy to misbehave! Regular walks are important. If you do not have the time to walk for miles, using a doggie backpack can make a short walk seem like a long walk for your dog. A dog backpack immediately puts your dog into work mode, which will help to tire her brain. If you evenly balance some weight on each side, such as water bottles, it will further the amount of physical energy that is expended by your dog. Teaching your dog to walk nicely next to the stroller is also important. It is very difficult and dangerous to have a dog pulling and out of control while trying to maneuver a stroller. If you plan to use a baby carrier, sling, backpack or car seat your dog needs to behave on the leash and walk with you, not pull you. It is a good idea to practice with the equipment before baby comes (use a doll in place of the baby) so that you can work out any kinks or problems.

Have regular obedience sessions with your dog so that she does not forget her commands and remembers that she has to listen at all times. This also helps to tire her brain! Try to work the commands into everyday life so that it becomes second nature to her.

Is your dog allowed on your furniture?-

If your dog is currently allowed on the furniture you may want to reconsider this as your baby will likely be on the furniture a lot. Dog hair and dirt can irritate your baby. You also don't want to have to constantly clean up after the dog. Your dog could also inadvertently injure the baby jumping up on the furniture or repositioning himself. It's best to restrict access to the furniture so that problems do not occur.

Time-out for your dog-

Be sure you give your dog time away from the baby to settle. Time outs are an effective tool to allow your dog to keep its sanity and also for when they are doing something wrong.

Your new schedule and your dog-

It is time to readjust the dog's schedule to acquaint her with the upcoming changes. Think realistically about the time you will have for the dog for things such as walks, feeding, potty breaks, play and attention. Try to keep the schedule consistent for your dog so that she does not feel unnecessary stress from the changes that are happening before your baby arrives. Having as little disruptions as possible will help to accomplish this goal. Once your dog feels secure and is used to the new routine, try to start having slight variations in your daily happenings. When your baby arrives things do not always go as planned. You can have every intention of staying on schedule and inevitably something will change that schedule! Babies do not follow schedules! Do try to stay on schedule, when possible, so that your dog is allowed some semblance of a routine. Dogs feel safety when the rules and routines stay the same.

Pay less attention to your dog-

It is now time to teach the dog to expect less attention from you in one sitting. Once the baby arrives you will not have the same amount of quality time to spend with your dog, but it is still essential to make time for your dog. Schedule regular 5 to 10 minute sessions each day where you pay full attention to your dog. You can do things such as play, grooming, petting or just talk to your dog. This allows your dog to understand that he is still an important part of your life. You need to teach the dog that this time may be with or without the baby. This is also a good time for you to relax and unwind as pets are very therapeutic. Be aware that if you have more than one pet, each will need individual attention if possible. You can also give the pack the attention at the same time, providing they get along, or allow them to play together to burn energy.

Your dog needs to be calm and balanced-

You need to make sure that your dog is calm and balanced before baby comes into the house. It is very important for your dog to learn how to be calm so that he does not hurt you or the baby. Your dog needs to be balanced so that he does not stress needlessly and act out inappropriately. If your dog is not calm and balanced there are ways to help you accomplish this. Training and exercise are good places to start to achieve a calm and balanced dog. If these do not work your dog may have something wrong with him, such as a mental or physical problem. Consult with your vet and local canine behaviorist or trainer. They should be able to steer you in the right direction. They can help advise you of the route you should take, whether behavior modification, medication, or holistic remedies.

Is your dog gentle?-

Teaching your dog how to be gentle is extremely important so that he will not inadvertently hurt the baby. Many dogs use their teeth too much and need to be taught the proper way to use their mouths - without the teeth!

Does your dog jump?-

If your dog is a jumper, teaching proper greetings will help to curb this problem. It is vital that your dog can see people without jumping or getting overly excited. When the baby comes home there will probably be lots of people visiting and he will need to be on his best behavior. It also facilitates the proper, gentle behavior your dog should have around the baby.

How will my dog handle the baby being rough with her?-

Teaching your dog what to physically expect from your baby is extremely important so that she is able to cope with and know what to do when baby pulls, hits or pushes her. Infants and children are not necessarily gentle by nature, and have to be taught how to be so. Your dog also needs to learn how to deal with these behaviors from his small leaders. Start to gently handle your dog in a rougher fashion while praising good behavior and gently, if possible, correcting inappropriate behavior such as nipping or mouthing. Children tend to pet roughly, pull ears and tails, put their hands in the dog's face and touch sensitive areas on the dog. You need to mimic these behaviors in order to teach your dog what to expect and how to deal with it appropriately. Make it a daily habit to have time on the floor with your dog touching every part of his body in a loving fashion. This is good because it allows the dog to accept touch in areas that it may not want touched. It also teaches the dog to be gentle while on the floor and to be submissive to you and your baby. Do this slowly and your dog will understand

Obedience training your dog-

Your dog needs to be obedience trained and have basic manners. I suggest that you enroll in a training class if you can. Check your local training clubs, or facilities, for classes and make sure to observe a class so that you can see how they train. Make sure that you are comfortable with their techniques and the instructors. If you are not allowed to observe a class, please look elsewhere. Trainers who are legitimate should have no problem with this and encourage you to do so.

The following are some basic commands and actions that your dog should be able to do to ensure that he will listen and be under control:

• Walk nicely on a leash
• Sit
• Down
• Stay
• Leave-it
• NO
• Understand boundaries
• Quiet
• Attention/Look
• Drop-it
• Go to Your Spot/Place

Teaching the dog to respond to hand signals will also be beneficial. A sleeping baby is less likely to get woken up if you are not talking.

It is also a good idea to teach your dog to accept wearing a leash - in and out of the house. This ensures that you have control over your dog and tends to help make the dog better behaved. Most towns and cities have leash laws so it is imperative that your dog get used to the leash. You should also walk your dog everyday. This gives your dog mental stimulation, as well as physical exercise, which helps to tire them out, thus making them less likely to get into trouble and an overall better behaved dog.

Spot, Go To Your Spot!-

The "Go to Your Spot" command is a great command to have in your arsenal for a well-behaved dog. You can use this exercise to allow your dog to be with you and not underfoot, or keep your dog at a distance and still know where he is and what he's doing. It teaches your dog to go lie down on a rug or blanket and stay until released.

Long down stays are important in general, whether or not he is "in a spot", because they help you to maintain control over your dog. By your dog having to work for you, it facilitates a relationship in which you are dominant (in charge or the alpha figure) in your and your dog's mind.

Teach your dog what he can chew on-

All dogs chew. Each has a specific reason for it, and has a physical need to chew. They need to chew to exercise their jaws as well as to let out pent up frustrations. Excessive chewing can also be a breed trait. To help avoid problems, do not set yourself up for failure.

Soiling in the house-

If your dog has an accident in the house, or is not housetrained, you need to clean it properly to avoid further "accidents" or remarking of the same areas and to maintain a sanitary environment. Dog feces can contain parasites and other unwanted disease. Giardia, E-Coli, other worms and parasites are sometimes present in the feces and many are transferrable to humans.

Use high-value treats-

Use treats of high value - treats your dog loves and doesn't normally get - when dealing with new baby sights, sounds and scents. This tells your dog that these are good things, and that he should like them and associate them with rewards, instead of feeling malice or fear towards them. Make sure to keep the treats special, and only use them for the purposes of getting your pup familiar with what the new baby will be like.

The health and cleanliness of your dog is vital-

It is essential that your dog has a clean bill of health and is clean before you bring your baby home. Take your dog to the vet for a check-up to make sure that he has no health problems as these can cause unwanted behaviors in your dog that will interfere with his life with your baby. Make sure that he is up-to-date on all shots, or that his titer levels are good, and that he is worm-free.

The next thing you need to make sure of is that you bathe your dog or have him groomed BEFORE the baby comes home. If your dog sheds, it is a good idea to start a de-shedding program, such as regular grooming and adding a product such as Linatone (which you can obtain at your local pet store, online or at some groomers) which has a special combination of oils to help the skin and coat. Be careful not to over-bathe your dog as this can cause skin problems in many dogs. Make sure that he has no fleas or ticks as this is unsanitary and can expose your baby to health problems. It also creates problems as you will not have much time to bathe him once the baby is around. Using special flea and tick medication will help to ensure that he remains flea-less and tick-less.

Start teaching your dog to accept his paws and body wiped when he comes in from outside will aid in reducing the amount of dirt he tracks in the house. It also reduces the chance that your dog will carry in something that will cause an allergic reaction in you or your baby

Also, make sure to vacuum or sweep regularly as dog hair accumulates fast. This is especially important once your baby starts to crawl or be on the ground a lot, unless of course you want the baby to be a human Swiffer!

Carry a doll-

The idea of carrying around a doll (preferably one that cries) may seem silly, but it is a very good way to get your dog used to an addition to the family. Everything is different with a baby. Holding a baby changes your posture, and your mannerisms, so your dog needs to be comfortable and accepting of this. The dog also needs to follow commands and be obedient when you have the baby or the baby is out and about. Using a doll while practicing everyday commands will help your dog respond better when the baby arrives. Take the dog for walks, play with the dog, and all the normal things you do with your dog with and without the baby equipment and doll.

Baby sounds-

Getting your dog used the sounds of a baby is also a good idea. This allows your dog to familiarize herself with the alien noises that it may not have heard before so that it is not a surprise when baby comes home. Things like crying, gurgling, yelling/screaming, and baby babble are not necessarily normal for a dog to hear. There are many cds and tapes that you can purchase for this purpose. Start the volume low and expose your dog for short periods of time at first. Gradually increase the volume and amount of time you play the sounds. Try to play the recording everyday until the baby arrives.

Real babies and children-

Another good idea is to expose your dog to the real thing - real babies and children. If you have friends or relatives who have babies you can ask if they will allow your dog to listen in or even record them for you. You can visit places like parks, if your dog is well-behaved, so your dog can hear all of the noises children make. Make sure to start this away from your house so that your dog does not feel threatened in her own territory. The next step is to expose your dog in your yard, and then in your house. Make this a gradual process so your dog can slowly accept it.

Baby smells-

The smells of a baby are often unfamiliar to a dog. Slowly start to get your dog used to these new smells by using the products you will use on your baby, such as baby oil, powder, baby wash and diaper cream. Putting these products on baby blankets and baby clothes will also help. If you have friends or relatives that have babies, ask to borrow used and unwashed blankets and burp cloths so that the dog can get accustomed to the real smells of a baby.

The Nursery-

Setting up the nursery allows your dog to become acquainted with changes in the house. It allows your dog to become comfortable with the sights and sounds associated with baby equipment, thus avoiding shock when baby arrives.

If you don't want your pup in the nursery you need to start restricting access now. Keeping the door shut or a baby gate in the doorway helps to achieve this. Your dog will not feel left out or anxious about no longer being allowed in that room. Another good idea is to put a dog bed outside of the nursery so that your dog is still close to you, but not in the room. He will not feel banished, but will feel more included. Spend time in the room without your pooch so he understands that this will be normal, and that it is no longer his territory. As he starts to understand that the room is no longer his, he will accept it and be less likely to try to get in there when the baby comes home. This also helps to keep the room clean and free of dog hair and dirt. You will have more than enough to clean in the nursery as it is!

If you plan to allow your dog in the nursery start to teach the proper behaviors as soon as possible. Train her to be calm in there and not to jump up on the furniture and baby equipment. It is also a good idea to teach her to do down-stays when in the nursery so that she is allowed to be with you and the baby, but is out of the way and behaving. You may also want to have a bed or rug in there that your dog is allowed to lay on (remove it when you and the dog are not in the room). When the baby starts to crawl and move about you may want to limit the amount of time the dog spends in there and never leave the baby alone with the dog.

Baby's things are off-limits-

Make sure to constantly reinforce that the baby's things are not the dog's things. Even though you may have practiced this before the baby came home, dogs do need reminders.

It is important to dispose of dirty diapers properly to ensure that your dog does not get them. Dogs love things that have human waste on them, such as dirty diapers and feminine products. Keep these products out of reach as they will make an awful mess and are very unhealthy for your dog to ingest. They have chemicals that are not good for your dog and can cause blockages. Besides, the consuming of human waste can also make your dog sick (and have disgusting breath!).

Teach your dog to leave baby blankets alone and not to lay or step on them. Lay them on the furniture and the floor to teach your dog that they are off limits. If your dog tries to walk or lay on them use a firm "NO" and redirect your dog to a proper spot and have him lay down. When your dog avoids these on his own, praise him for his good behavior with a treat or petting and he will understand that these items are not something to go near. You want to prevent possible injuries to your baby from your dog while baby is lying on or hiding under the blankets (as often babies do!).

Teach your dog which toys belong to him-

It is recommended to teach your dog what toys are his and what toys are the baby's before baby arrives so that you will not have problems after. This is also a good idea because you can purchase toys similar to what your baby will have and not worry about using baby's actual toys for these exercises. An easy way to do this is to use peanut butter (or something like it such as cream cheese or cheese spread) and bitter apple (you can purchase this online or at pet stores). Put bitter apple on the baby's toys and peanut butter on the dog's toys. Before you give your dog the choice about which toys he wants, take a little bitter apple on your finger and wipe it around in your dog's mouth. This will help your dog to immediately identify the nasty taste on the baby toys. If you do not do this the bitter apple often dilutes and the dog will be able to get the baby's toys because the taste is bearable. Make sure to have some treats ready to reward your dog when he chooses his toys over baby's. Put the dog's leash on and you are ready to begin. Put the "marked" toys on the floor and let your dog decide which toys he prefers. If he still tries to take the baby toys, tell him "no, leave-it", and if necessary pull him away with the leash with a quick jerking motion. Do not try to hurt the dog, just give a quick correction as you repeat "no, leave-it". When your dog does "leave" the baby toys alone, praise and treat. You can also teach the dog the concepts of "Mine", "Baby's" and "Yours" by adding these phrases to the training sessions. When the dog goes for his toys you can say, "Good! Yours!" When the dog goes for the baby's toys say, "No, Leave-it, Baby's". You can use the same principle as used for the baby's toys when the dog goes for something that is yours by substituting "Mine" in place of "Baby's."

Please remember that if you leave your baby's toys lying around your dog will most likely try to steal them. The temptation is too much for her to handle and she probably will fail. Do not set her up for failure! Try to get toys for the dog that are not like the baby's - no stuffed animals and things that rattle. There are plenty of good dog toys that are very different from baby toys. Lastly, only keep a few of the dog's toys out at a time. This will avoid her falling prey to the syndrome of "everything within my reach is mine!" If she understands that the three toys on the ground are hers, she will be less apt to take things she shouldn't.

If you follow the guidelines set forth in this article you should be able to accustom your dog to your newborn without much difficulty. Remember, when in doubt, always consult a professional trainer!

Mandy Makein is an author and dog trainer. For free dog training report visit [http://www.stopdogjump.com/]

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